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Personal space (personal space) ② consider (whether approaching 45 centimeters in game!)

admin — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 12:35:47 +0000

Personal space, which influences many aspects of human behavior and mental life. Also, the magnitude of the spatial domain is concrete, that person’s sex, age, personality that depends.
If you like other people, personal space is infinitely smaller, wider, if we would dislike. Given that the gender approach distance of that kind of thing is important. It appears from the intimacy of two people taking a casual distance.
American scholars have, for the taking of interpersonal distance in social life can be whichever you have explains that some patterns.
According to the scholar, 45-120 cm distance of two sexes. In other words, if the range is shaking hands, personally close relationship, friends, relations and friends are saying.
But if you are within 45 cm, a very close relationship, he said the distance allowed between a husband and wife couple Toka. Also, seems to keep a distance of 120-360 cm, the person or business meeting, including a colleague or manager, explains that he has not-so-friendly friend away.
Knowing your personal space will come on behalf of the human eye a little. The person is aggressive, you could be from longstanding violations of the space, or people that are not’ve been able to Toka, what can not be applied to people-watching. Also, take action when something such as, knowing the distance between the opponent and the placement of his smooth and will carry communications may also be able to avoid damage to yourself.
To increase the intimacy and love with a woman should increase the number of contacts, we have discussed many times in this site. This is the “principle of mere exposure” is the movement of the heart called. However, in human relationships, even if just to talk, than when you are talking away, the more time you talk close, it’s fairly obvious by experimental results in psychology that is easily have a positive . That is, if we simply make contact, which is the most effective when the conversation is more close to the woman as possible.
Approach distance 45 cm! Well … you saw in the fun. You might have an unexpected effect of.

Personal space (personal space) ① think (and woman’s psychology is closer).

admin — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 12:34:39 +0000

Others refuse to invade the human body around my area “invisible” to have. Personal space is a space (personal space), he has been called. This is a self-defend “turf,” I would say. Remember they are people of the violation of personal discomfort with this space.
The size of this personal space is the size that some people are different. In general, more males than females significantly greater than introverted people are more outgoing person. Children and adults, is a great space to have more children. Moreover, people close to the small, nasty people go bigger, and Guaini also change the size of the opponent, which is the feature of personal space.
And kindred spirit to any person, that person’s mind fit. Who have a replacement, “I want to close us,” and thought, and some people hate the feeling of dislike is “to have a little distance,” is seeping sentiment. Emotions, which is reflected in human behavior unconsciously. During the course of the conversation and exchanged greetings, and to be closer to a natural person must 持Tere impressed. However, contrary to match people’s needs more closely the body reacts to not. People, depending on the degree of exchange to the other, that is to control the distance approaching.
When a particular resistance from 近寄Ra man is not gay. But it is a heterosexual woman approaches become hypersensitive awareness. For women it’s reluctant to have sex than men are approaching women.
Therefore, it is for a man approaching a woman there is a special meaning, he can approach women without men is profound. So close to men is “special girl” is getting close enough to be sometimes mistaken.
In this case, approaching women, the least favorable for the man has. However, it equals, and that romantic feelings can not decide prematurely, you may need to be careful.

Most women with negative words (although I still love you … shunned!)

admin — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 12:33:33 +0000

In the early stages of dating, the character of the opponent, mostly invisible, as the company progresses, we have to understand each other’s personality. Among the women, who often have negative words. In other words, is that women often complain about.
Such women will complain with something. Once in the restaurant, “said Walter feels this shop, and not a good sense was better ○ ○” とか, it rains on the day of the date “Saite Nantes ask someone out on the day like this. Second, the clothes you just bought of No “and so on to talk about the only complaint said. Such women are often callous if you have the people around you do not care about a strong desire for self-display. Such type of dating women and would be better to say clearly noted.
Nothing wrong with you saying Nantes is not complaining. Should be a submissive woman must Toka man, a man complain, I say at is not. You’d think twice. You have a lot of complaints with a woman, or man would be fun …. Perhaps there never fun. Negative word of complaint, even I was told I was in the mouth can be the result in a negative state of mind is not clean.
Even if you do not blame the complaint, barrage of complaints to the relationship between the two is negative. Also, much like a woman, that if recorded on the man and woman in a relationship does not have this. After marriage and led to the association temporarily with success, must have a home waiting for dark and fun. Life, he will have to 暮Rasane been told his wife to complain. Such life, what you endure.
Women are better able to talk positive. For example, when she invites you to see the movie, “something rotten movie, not yours until you pay for. Rather, it’s a concert Tsuretette ○ ○” negative words that than, “I might also enjoy watching movies, and concerts of interesting ○ ○. Tomorrow is going to Sotchi” Do not feel good and more positive words.
Even saying the same thing as saying in a positive and negative to say, come the wrong impression at all. Human emotion, whether or not the contents are correct, would be altered by the words.
A lot of negative stories is that women’s nature. If you go to change your own self-awareness, such disposition will quite incurable. Avoid wasted life, a lot of women complain … It should be noted earnestly.
Fly to the southern sky … the crows cried. Oh, vain. . . .

Women’s Action mouth off at cost (whether a woman to satisfy the ego!)

admin — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 12:32:26 +0000

Women are basically like the struggle conflict. So, in a quarrel with a man, or a different cast is strong, and denied outright or may not be able to have a calm conversation. And he tends to frenzy or defensive. Of course, true to say that all women, that would be considered sufficiently crisp.
Once crisp and disrupt the interaction with women, story line will be the prime example of the illogical. So hate hate, bad and bad things, so no issue to chew on, let the feeling go berserk. For example, a marital spat, and also tend mum first husband, said that the word loses its sharpness of some of his wife for the first time. The woman had been in this situation, what can we convince my story of how … Once you settle down.
It is, once the women’s opinions or claims needed to be done is acknowledged. That “Oh, ○ ○, as I may say your name ○ ○” “Yeah, say that such views certainly correct” and allow the opponent, it can be said to do it up. On the “but” “But,” he should continue with their own opinions.
Strictly speaking, the words quoted opinions and leave a woman in the mouth, which is incorporated in an effective argument that his remarks. Is it just women, but have a feeling as observed from the opinions of you. In addition, without having to quote the opinions of women, “It is noticed in your story …” Listen carefully and indeed the other person who, by showing that the attitude of respect, self-esteem of women to satisfy must have available.
For women, it was found that their opinions and claims is important, if we can be satisfied, to issue such a move since it is the gist of the story of the need.
But, well, a decent woman would argue should be avoided. The man that it might soon forget, never forget the woman. Forever, since I remember. Why remember … Do you know what it means to you. . . .

Woman seeking a proof of love (and self-love is too strong …)

admin — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 12:29:52 +0000

You will come with her and my birthday and Christmas, I wonder what she presents help someone. Man who’ll make dinner and gifts for luxury accessories, Isn `t too many.
Some women “do not need anything special, and I feel if muffled,” would have to talk about the dialogue and some. But, just because, believe in the word “congratulations” to end the birthday of yours just a word and she, perhaps, from a woman who willingly has little or no heart. “Dattara loving me, for just small …” and must have a lonely feeling.
The human mind is unstable and unlikable person becomes even love. The more one likes, without checking the other’s feelings is to say that human psychology have become no. But minds are not visible. So women, men Korashi much twist, you come to the appeal in gifts and what is the measure of the weight of love.
Women, men will seek a variety of words and actions as evidence of love. However, “if only this and Crelle, his true love …” There is no border line of women’s anxiety is the fear remains forever. Continuously, so I will want evidence that the shape of his love he should give you this if you like, you want this as a proof of love, the desire Guaini gone and inflated.
The above nature, in terms of how common in women, but as long as there is a sincere man, can cause cracks in the relationship Pretty low. So, it is highly not going to be a big problem too.
But the trouble is a woman too strong for Innovation Chiyo self-love. Type of this kind will require only proof of love against. The bottom of the truth, may have lack of confidence in women. I myself can not confirm through him, and nothing and show evidence that the words and attitude always loved, he will repeat the conditions that raise anxiety. As a result, they lose sight of the joy that is the love from you. Then, noticing even himself, “If you love me, want to ○ ○” “If you love me, show evidence of” wish he would just look like that. The ultimate form of such women, “If you love me, marry …” Will not it be like to request.
A man, let’s love and married women in this type of hand. What do you think would really be happy Futari. Floating suspicion would really heavy …. You’d think twice. Her next request got the ultimate form of love, what will it be exactly what ….
“If you love me …”. . . . . Could not tell – A Midsummer Night’s scary.

What are your favorite women’s boyfriend? (Let’s pointless to worry Nantes!)

admin — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 12:28:47 +0000

口説Kitai man and a woman can, is to care whether or not the woman dating a man. To confirm the existence of a boyfriend and put on a fishing, there are those who tow a quick look. “We can not go rob someone else’s girlfriend” or “Because of that boyfriend, only to give up” because there is a particular reason.
By the way, what is so important that the presence of a woman’s boyfriend’s favorite …. If a guy to reveal the presence of women is indeed likely turn around me would say less clear. However, all the words and the truth is that women’s say in the mouth.
“What boyfriend?” Heard “is not” is answered, and her boyfriend is not the necessarily. That is, he may come to an answer so happy if even a boyfriend. Moreover, even without the boyfriend in the hand, “What boyfriend?” If you want to deny a man who has heard “Of course, we are” is a lie and may make your day.
Women “not” if the intention was there greatly worth the attack. “I have not” and went from denial to a man’s view, the attack would be safe to give up more.
If you are not satisfied with the man who is now dating women, women will not have to pretend boyfriend, about to be invited to another man attractive. I have such cases. And successful it can be cut off once and for relations with the previous boyfriend. Which has the nature of such ruthless. But it would not be reprehensible. It makes sense considering that the instinct that works to preserve the superior progeny.
Given the nature of such women, I would not worry about the unavoidable even if the women want a boyfriend. In other words, it is such a meaningless.
The woman is not like you need to give up as long as they show lenient attitude of the guard is not the woman. Imai will have a boyfriend like that, do not have to worry about such a thing is not at all. However, the woman “man” as shown Dattara because of rejection, which should quickly give up and find a new love.
I have something lingering there mon!旅立Tou man for the future ….

“women door” is open without knocking. (“Plug away …” Hi!)

admin — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 12:27:30 +0000

Embarking on a human being love “make assurance double sure,” If you like saying things like, you’ll have to win at all. In other words, while looking like a woman from afar, “I wonder who she is in love with me” “What if shaken Shou … ‘and so on, just imagine a, if you fail to act and that “Love” It’s impossible for such development.
Is watching from a distance only if the women know the feeling that this is not easy. Even the man in contact with women, “女心” going to be difficult to understand. So women do not want any contact “heart” is such a good story and know your convenient.
“女心 door” can not open even if there is no thoughtful and the arms folded. First, it is necessary to call out to the knock. Then we repeat the attack strategy remains 果敢Naru think kneading. How to break open the door it’s not only hard 閉Zashita. Of course, the more aggressive female “door of 女心” If you talk to me is another opening. Otherwise, we would only have the more long-winded guy.
Who is being swung Datte hate. There is no 傷Tsukitaku. It is the same woman Datte. But if you fear it, your “love” does not proceed ahead. Some may have swung to lose, surely there should Datte to gain.
The woman is beautiful in appearance. Everybody would think that a boyfriend. However, just because you have a boyfriend is not always beautiful. Too clean, but there could have been avoided Datte from men around. So “Sooner” Nantes possible make your day. Between men and women do not know what happens. What was surprising is how dramatic are not connected.
Emergency, 往Kan!女心 door is “courage” to be held by … …

Woman man “like” mechanism which has ③ (blue marriage, why take place).

admin — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 12:26:20 +0000

In a sense, that may be of course, others believe that human beings around you. Who can make a difference for me is “love” Holding the feeling of being easy. Conversely, a negative result in people “hate” or it might actually have feelings. Also, consider yourself to criticize the enemy, who would have us praise is viewed as allies. Isn `t have such tendency is for everyone. But for others, from some people who have dared the angry note, we want to make are such important people.
“Love” in mind that there is a kind. The shallow depth but also height accordingly. “Friends,” “Friend,” “Lover,” “Family” is different and the opponent. “Family” feeling for “love” feeling is apparent even for the same love, which is different to that of its contents.
Among the women decided to get married “marriage Blue” Some people fall into a state called psychological. In other words, “really, what I marry this person …” “To me, there are other men in the more appropriate” refers to a state of suffering and thoughts floating in my mind. “Marriage Blue” which is the probability of men in women is low.
Women often decide to get married if the assumption that the male partner 操Reru significantly. The feeling happy because otherwise unfamiliar with. Once Hiyo Innovation, there may be some kind of compromise. So, “Marriage Blue” Will not it would cause a state and Lost.
Women’s “like” it’s complicated feelings. The male “reason” is to love your “instinct” because you have to love it. So just because you can get married, you 100% “love” and say it is a.
However, extra care would be without. “Love” is a thing we grow together. Affection between men and women are also married, because they can grow securely. Thus, “love” is perhaps a preparation for that period ….

Woman man “like” mechanism which has ② (instinct or reason? … Which mack on)

admin — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 12:25:13 +0000

Woman man “like” when will, if you have reason to work with, “This person expects and makes me happy …” and should 入Rane decision. In other words, economic strength and potential. It’s good faith and for his personality. Such points should be based. “Even if I, do not need anything,” words that are not in accordance with such real life. Without some degree of economic strength, not a life I can not raise your kids Datte. Good character chemistry, to understand fully Kurenakattara that their opponent will not be able to freely control. Also, there is no reasonable good faith in man, may lead women with Mitsui earned money elsewhere. Ask them to do that is in trouble.
In other words, if you become like a man with reason that women and men “economic power,” “potential,” “personality,” “good faith” to determine the center point, such as “like” it is considered that by adding to feelings of there.
“I can not buy with money,” argues that women have. I say that she certainly would not be wrong. However, high income, to a large number of women gathered together and party 合Kon well-educated men … I wonder why.
Certainly women “instinct” the man “like” if we become, economic power and personality may be irrelevant. “Reason” it works is weak, since we tend to be stronger men seeking instinct dictates. But “reason” a man with “love” if we become “economic power,” “potential,” “personality,” “good faith” will go to their hearts are moved and are excellent points. “Instinct” and “reason” or get a strong trend of which varies depending on whether the man would not be in contact.
Your “instinct” If seduce a woman with “looks”, “masculinity is fearless,” How do I compete with. But it’s useless if her “reason” would not only appeal to. “Economic power” and “future” if there is, or “it’s the personality” or “good faith” may be able to grasp in either 女心.
You, if “Which I since there is no white in the Mote to her …” If you think that it is wrong. If you do not say Mote, and their frustration against the spring, what you see ~ ~ V and entrepreneurial efforts aiming determined purpose to suggestion. Become a millionaire if successful, must have definitely become a man’re popular. At that time, look carefully to the eyes of approaching women. Innovation After Hiyo, perhaps because the ¥ mark floating in the back of the eyes …. In such I, epiglottis, write!
Woman man “like” mechanism which has ③ (blue marriage takes place why) … Continued.

Women love and kindness to distinguish between (a man mistake happen?)

admin — Sat, 14 Jan 2012 12:24:06 +0000

The story is also fun to spend time with each other, that of the other women happily. Such men are to remain relevant, “that she could love me …” and I must have become. Try to take the plunge and confess there and frankly shocked and refused. It is a familiar story Nantes.
Misunderstanding of these men would be reasonably confident that the difference is caused by the love and kindness towards captured. In other words, because women have a clear boundary between love and goodwill, goodwill is goodwill, love has captured the romance and relationships to distinguish gender. So, women’s love and kindness as it is a must. But men are not that clear distinction. Therefore, the “love = favor” and tend to think. That is causing the misunderstanding that gender is male.
Women are “like a friend” and “like a lover,” has a clear boundary between, and just friends even though not from some border that not a lover, confusing perspective and from the man. Involuntarily, “I clearly white” and will also 叫Bitaku. However, women who say, “I wonder what I misunderstood …” is that the neck 傾Ge and Fuu.
Women are better for the man “really just a good person …” or saying. These words, as a lover means that the rice has been excluded. Also, “I can not hate you …” and called the woman and the man is a “must hate or love,” but you want to, it means “I neither love not hate” and will be interpreted.
Men had been decided to exclude women can succeed as a woman 口説Ita less. No, would not say may be the special unless you have an accident. Better then I found a new love to switch the head. What’s bad is going to be bad everywhere.